One that is so memorable that even on your dying day, you might reminisce about it.
One that is so exquisitely designed that you wonder how someone was so genius to create it.
Every once in a while we are given a film that truly, truly affects us.
It is my personal opinion that Boyhood is NOT that film.
If professional critics were to be believed, Boyhood is slowly becoming the "best movie ever". It's score on Metacritic as of the date of writing this is a perfect 100...greater than the likes of classics like The Godfather, Citizen Kane, and many, many more. Despite these ratings, I went into Boyhood with a critical eye; I tried to not let hype get in the way of my judgment, which, I'll be perfectly honest, happens more often than I would like it to.
The critics don't necessarily have it wrong...Boyhood is truly a tremendous film. It's expertly crafted, fun to watch, and poignant. I can see how some would regard it as a classic. But for me, it's praise stops at it being a really good movie.
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| Ethan Hawke in particular is shocking to watch perform as he was the most famous of the cast over the last 12 years |
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| "And then Mr. Rath became super rich and drove an Aston Martin and lived happily ever after!" |
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| Ok Mason, we get it. You're full of angst. Now would ya stop with the emo swoosh? |
There are several more members of the cast and they all do well with what they are given. I thought Lorelei Linklater (Richard Linklater's real life daughter) had a fairly undefined character as the daughter of the family. She does excellent in her scenes, but I felt that the tone and attitude of her character, Samantha, was somewhat of an afterthought when compared to the rest of the family.
In the spirit of heaping on praise, the film also has a golden script with several lines that really just stick with you. It gets a bit heavy-handed when Mason starts spewing conspiracies and "Are you high?" epiphanies, but most of the time it's on point. There is a certain nostalgia factor along with this too...Britney Spears, digi-pets, Harry Potter, and many other staples of recent childhood all make appearances to make you feel all warm and bubbly inside. From a cinematic standpoint, the shots provided to us are well orchestrated and the editing is consistent. The soundtrack was also expertly hand picked, and quickly became one of my favorite aspects of the film.
By now you're probably wondering what that first paragraph was all about. So, after giving all the praise I have to give for the film, allow me to know explain my opinion as to why I don't agree with the professional critic masses. Boyhood is very much a film about experiences, and every person will relate to it differently. Personally, growing up, I had a nice, comfortable childhood with little drama or hardship. I might not have thought that at the time, but compared to the rest of the world, I had it easy. Hell, I still do. Boyhood takes the mundane of life, along with it's small dramas, and makes it into a three hour film. This is both one of its greatest achievements as well as part of its faults, at least in my eyes. The film is, quite simply, about growing up. It begs us to remember times and experiences that we have had in our own lives in order to help us relate to this core group of extremely normal characters. Given that I haven't had the tribulations of an abusive father, or of drinking in high school, or of a constantly-working mother, I personally found it hard to relate. In short:
I haven't lived enough of my life to fully grasp the film that was presented to me.
It's a revelation that took me greater than 24 hours to come to and it's not one that I arrived at easily. Because I personally can't relate to Boyhood on a consistent basis over the course of three hours, I think I sought it's faults more than most. Periods of time pass without the audience knowing and we are left guessing when in time it is, the mother's choices in men are consistently terrible, but the film unfairly leads us to believe that they are stand-up guys from the get go, some scenes in the film just flat-out weren't necessary...mundane can be fascinating, but not for three hours, and I found that at the end of the day, all we as an audience really did was watch this superbly-normal family grow up before our eyes. There is certainly a magic in that, but I was also left feeling like there had to be something more.
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| I graduated high school. Does that mean I'm supposed to connect with this scene? Possibly... |
Boyhood isn't the end-all, be-all film as other critics would have you believe, but that doesn't make it any less special in both its presentation and its message.
CONS:
- No matter which way you look at it, the film is centered around the mundane...around normal life. Some scenes mask this well and in others it is painfully obvious that nothing is happening
- Samantha's character is inconsistent
- The movie tricks the audience into believing that the men that the mother begins dating are fantastic guys when in reality they have significant dark sides
- I couldn't shake the feeling at the end that nothing really happened
- There are jarring time shifts. They are in order, yes, but I found it hard to keep up with how old Mason was for much of the duration of the film
- Linklater's attempt to film over the course of 12 years is truly what gives the film its magic. Seeing these people, particularly Ellar Coltrane, grow and age before our eyes in the midst of this story is remarkable
- A highly intelligent and real script. It has a lot of important things to say
- The film will speak to everyone in a different way. Some may get more out of the film than others
- Nostalgia of the early 2000s
- The film is much funnier than I was expecting
- Well-picked soundtrack
- The story revels in the normalcy of life. At times that can be really refreshing, especially in a summer filled with robots, apes, and mutants
- Just a well made piece of film from a technical perspective
- It's a film that, while I may not have been as blown away as some, will make you think about it days after you leave the theater
Rath's Review Score: 8.5/10





A good review. I think I enjoyed it more than you but I agree with some of your misgivings. It is too long and a bit navel gazing in the last third and that's probably Linklater's point: life isn't easily summed up or necessarily dramatic. I was thoroughly absorbed by it though. One of the most important films of the year and one that should be seen but, you're right, it's not perfect.
ReplyDeleteThanks Gypsy King! Nice to know that I won't be thrown to the wolves for not giving it a perfect score. I admit, I was absorbed...that three hours went by really fast. But as impressive and important as it was, it's not really one that I would need to see again.
DeleteDefinitely one that people should see though.
I heard a lot of hype about Boyhood because of how it was filmed. However, I think I am with you in that I will probably not relate to the movie either for various reasons. I really only relate to geeks in movies, and that's about it. Anyway, maybe I will watch Boyhood when it comes out to rent.
ReplyDelete-James
Probably a good film to expand your horizons a bit...I know that I enjoyed my time with it, hence the 8.5/10 score.
DeleteBut I was left somewhat in question as to how it has received the reviews it has. Different strokes for different folks I guess.